“ace exclusionism” is honestly a very weak and misleading term that does not properly represent the valid criticisms of asexuality and the larger mogai community that most people i’ve met seem to have. you can joke all you want about how you’re an aphobe and you want to kick all the mega-cringe aceys out of the community, but you’re just giving people justification to write off legitimate arguments against the split attraction model and other retrogressive ideologies that are being forced upon the LGBT community. i know we all love to kid around but sometimes if you really want people to see your side of the issue you have to actually… you know… be polite to them.