Tag: anonymous

sorry if my language came off as stand offish or like it was trying to make you feel stupid (english isn’t my first language, sorry i cant think of a word for this rn), i was just trying to let you know that it was entirely japanese made, and that netflix has made lots of entirely japanese produced content before. i could definitely have worded it better. you still chose to be incredibly angry and swear and make angry posts in response, so i’ll just unfollow so i dont upset you again. sorry.

oh anon it’s okay! god i feel. mega shitty now. i understand if english isn’t your first language, it really just sounded a lot like you were telling me i was dumb despite the fact that i said in my post i knew nothing about the show (movie?) but i can see i was being oversensitive.

this has been like. quite literally one of the shittiest weeks of my life and i know that that’s absolutely no excuse but i’m very on edge and i’m having a hard time handling criticism right now. there are people who stalk my blog and send me anon hate constantly, and they have similar typing styles to you, so i jumped to conclusions. i’m really sorry that i took my paranoia out on you.

i totally understand if you want to unfollow, but just know that i’m not upset with you and i really, really appreciate you messaging me. if you’d be willing to talk to me off anon so that i can apologize to you personally, i’d really appreciate it, but i get it if you’re too anxious or just done with me. i’d love for you to stick around, but if you’re set on unfollowing, just know that i don’t have friendorfollow or anything like that so you should probably hardblock me. once again though, i’m really really sorry.

It just kinda really sad, that the whole #metoo movement is being laughed at here in Austria. Everyone’s like “Women shouldn’t get upset over so small things” They’re playing it down by saying “You can’t even brush someone’s shoulder or something” and they’re forgetting the big stuff. I had a discussion with some of my mom’s friends and they all kinda also played it down and laughed about it and I just kind of started crying because I thought about my experience and no one knew why I was crying.

I’m so sorry, this is painful just to think about. What happened to you was terrible enough without also being laughed at for it. I certainly do think that it’s a problem how America-centric most internet movements are; pretty much everywhere outside of the US, Canada, and the UK are ignored, especially smaller countries that may have serious issues like this within their legal systems.

Thank you for your opinion on my story. I really wanted to tell someone how I feel. It’s kinda ridiculous but it’s actually legal for a 14 year old in Austria. I think they should change that. I think no 14 year old could ever be ready for sex. I know I wasn’t and none of my friends were. I really wish I would’ve experienced my first time with someone I love and most importantly not at the age of 14…

I feel that so much. But woah I didn’t even realize that was legal where you are… that’s super messed up! Please don’t let the law make you believe that it’s morally acceptable for an adult to take advantage of a young teenager, because that’s just not right and your abuser is a creep who deserves to rot in jail. Hopefully by raising awareness of these events, even just a little, we can put an end to some of this ignorance and make the world a safer place for those who come after us. Stay strong!

Hey I just read you post on Melanie and the rape thing and I wanted to ask you a question. Something similar has happened to me. I was 14 years old and pretty naive and I met up with a 19 year old boy. I was clearly NOT ready for sex. But he made a move and like you know we had sex but in my head I was screaming “No” but my mouth just didn’t say anything. I was 3 years ago and I never told anyone how I felt about it. I said it was “Okay” but it wasn’t. I didn’t want it to happen. Is this rape?

Yes, for multiple reasons. First of all, a fourteen year old having sex with a nineteen year old is automatically statutory rape, no matter the circumstance. Second of all, it sounds like he pressured you into accepting his advances and took advantage of you, so whether or not you said “no” is irrelevant. Especially considering the fact that he was an adult, this was absolutely rape. I’m very sorry that this happened to you, and I’m here for you if you ever need help or support.

@anon, bon is right. I once tried to distract myself from thinking about someone i missed, and it only made me miserable and caused me to lose track of my life as time went by. when i allowed myself to think of them again it soon became much less painful, and i started to have a much healthier outlook.

SORRY I DIDN’T GET TO THIS BEFORE but yes it’s true! it takes a lot of work to stop suppressing your emotions, but in the long run it’s much healthier to acknowledge them and let yourself move on at your own pace.

Silk for the ask meme

  • silk: list songs you listen to for a jam

ALRIGHTY here we go

  1. anklebiters (paramore)
  2. animal (neon trees)
  3. mr. brightside……… duh
  4. the entire album of bitter rivals by sleigh bells
  5. fever pitch (the romanovs)
  6. no consequences (versaemerge)
  7. tigerlily (la roux)
  8. miss nothing (the pretty reckless)
  9. kill v. maim
  10. sad machine
  11. innocence (halestorm)
  12. emily (mika)
  13. anything by chvrches or flyleaf
  14. I HAVE SO MANY MORE AGH
  15. just. here are some mixes i made that pump me up: 1 2 3

Sunflowers, pink, and, writing

  • sunflower: if there was a door that went to a city that was a good representation of you, what city would it be and would you go through the door?

first of all, this is such a creative question… i’d say that if it was a real city, it would be new york (which is already where i live so…) or maybe tokyo, which i would totally go to! if i could select a fictional city, it would be sweet city from one piece, which i would…. definitely go to, but i’d probably regret it. also i hate myself for thinking of this but considering my two irl answers were nyc and tokyo perhaps the city would be… neo yokio? i would go there

  • pink: sunsets or sunrises?

sunsets! i love the early morning, but sunsets are just prettier.

  • writing: do you write letters? if not, would you like to be?

i do, i love writing letters! i have a ton of stationery and i always decorate my letters with tons of stickers.