allo-dyke-privilege:

The ironic paradox of biphobia and lesbophobia is that lesbophobia will have you believe society wants you to be bi and biphobia will have you believe society wants you to be lesbian. The reality is that society does not want you to be lesbian or bi; that society only wants you to be straight, but will not hesitate to use other identities against you. If that means tricking you into believing your closest allies occupy a higher social standing than you and wish to keep you beneath them in the same way the straights do to them, then so be it. It’s not even divide and conquer, its recruiting us to do their own bidding and ridding them of us in the process. Heterosexuals as a class do not prefer lesbians to bisexuals or bisexuals to lesbians, though individually each one might have differing opinions on which are most or least acceptable.

Attempting to convince you that bi privilege or monosexual privilege exists is intended to shift our arms towards our allies instead of our oppressors.

💓, 🍇, 💚, ☀️!!

💓 – what’s a little thing you appreciate?

I appreciate when people get into something specifically because they know I like it. I really love talking about my interests with people so that always makes me excited at the prospect and grateful to have a friend who cares.

🍇 – if money was irrelevant what job would you want?

probably a librarian or a childcare worker.

💚 – name something you think is underrated.

I think that reading with people is a very underrated activity. I wish is was considered more commonplace for friends to just sit down and read books out loud together or to each other, it’s a really pleasant experience.

☀️ – what topic do you feel passionate about?

marine biology has been my special interest for a really long time, but honestly i have a ridiculous number of interests and they change constantly.

💓🌙 🌈

💓 – what’s a little thing you appreciate?

I really appreciate it when people send me things that they say reminded them of me? even if it’s just a song or a picture of a cloud or something, it makes me super happy.

🌙 – what is the loveliest dream you’ve had?

this is something I’m not sure if I’ll ever actually tell my girlfriend because I don’t know if she’ll believe me, but when I was maybe 13 I had this repeated dream where I would meet a girl with dark curly hair and glasses and she would lend me her umbrella. I didn’t remember her name but I did remember that it started with an A. I had actually completely forgotten about the dream until almost a year after Ash and I started dating, it was really weird and I had to double check my internal timeline to make sure we hadn’t already met at that point, but now I’m sure we hadn’t because I wrote about it in my middle school dream journal.

🌈 – describe your first love.

I know that this is probably in reference to romantic love, but honestly, my first love has and always will be my sister. she’s one of the most important people in my life and there were a lot of years where she was really the only person I had and I owe so much to her because of that.

ask game!

mxkehappy:

🌼 – what do you think is the most beautiful thing in your life right now?

🍭 – would you say you’re a loyal person?

💓 – what’s a little thing you appreciate?

🍀 – do you believe in luck? 

🐬 – do you like to swim?

🐦 – what’s a little thing you appreciate?

👀 – do you frequently check someone you don’t/used to know’s social media?

🦋 – what’s a big change you’ve gone through recently?

🐚 – would you rather have a small group of very close friends or a big group of medium-close friends? 

✝️ – do you believe in God or some sort of higher power?

🍇 – if money was irrelevant what job would you want?

🍉 – name something you think is overrated. 

💚 – name something you think is underrated. 

💋 – have you had your first kiss? if so, tell how it went. 

🔥 – what traits of a person do you find attractive?

☀️ – what topic do you feel passionate about?

🍎 – favorite fruit?

🌺 – favorite flower?

🎵 – top 5 songs at the moment?

🎤 – favorite musical artist(s)? 

🎧 – favorite album(s)?

👽 – do you believe in aliens? if so, why do you think we haven’t recieved any signals?

🌷 – describe your aesthetic. 

 ☂️ – do you like the rain?

❣️ – what is guaranteed to make you happy?

🌈 – describe your first love. 

💔 – describe your first heartbreak. 

📝 – do you like to write?

🗣️ – if you could go back and tell the person you were a year ago anything, what would it be?

🌎 – if you could live anywhere on earth where would you choose?

🌙 – what is the loveliest dream you’ve had?

⏳ – if you were immortal, how would you spend eternity? 

🌠 – if you could have one wish, what would it be?